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How long do I need to leave before trying to conceive after coming off the pill?


Posted: 28 December 2009
by ThinkBaby


Some doctors recommend that you come off the pill three months before you start trying to conceive, others say there’s no need to wait and that you can start trying right away.

The amount of time it takes to clear the pill from your system depends on many factors, including: your age, how long you were on the pill, what kind of pill you were on, as well as your general health. There’s no evidence that any residual elements of the pill will damage a fetus if you do conceive in the first three months, and some women conceive in their first cycle off the pill. But waiting for a few months before you start trying for a baby does have its advantages.

For a start a break between coming off the pill and trying to conceive will give you the chance to reacquaint yourself with your natural cycle so you can date a pregnancy more accurately if it does happen later. You can also use those three months to prepare the rest of your body for pregnancy by starting taking the right supplements (most importantly folic acid), having a preconception health check (including checking for immunity from Rubella), improving your diet, cutting back smoking and alcohol and starting a fitness regime if need be.

If you do decide that you want to wait a few months before trying, then you’ll need to use an alternative short-term form of contraception in the meantime.


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i came off pill tuesday how long if alls well we will fall pregnant?

had intercourse yesterday
Posted: 17/11/2006 16:46

Hi Sam
You could get lucky straight off but it usually does take a while for the pill to work out fo your system. I will link an article on this to the top of the thread, above.
Laura x
Posted: 17/11/2006 17:23

I have been off the pill for nearly 2 weeks now, i was worried what might happen if i fall pregnant not long after coming off, after reading the articles on this page it helped a lot.

Emma
xxx
Posted: 27/11/2006 11:26

Hi Sam, Laura and Emma

I have been off the pill for 3 weeks on friday. Keep checking for signs if im ovulating even got some of those sticks to help but not showing anything yet. Was on the pill for 9years though so i guess it may take a bit longer. Am so excited trying not to get my hopes up though. The way i look at it is if it does take awhile ive got longer to save for bits and me and my boyfriend have still got quality time to are selves for abit longer.
Posted: 28/11/2006 08:56

I was also on the pill for 9 years, been off 2 weeks now, cannot think of anything but babies!
Just going to take each day as it comes and see what happens!
Good luck all!!
Kelly x
Posted: 28/11/2006 18:23

Hi all

Its great to be able to share thoughts and stuff, i worry that i might not be able to get pregnant as have had some problems down below but fingers crossed it should be ok. My mum and sister got pregnant very easily hopfully i will be the same. Whats quite cool though is that we are all around the same stage and can start this journey together.
Posted: 29/11/2006 08:34

Same here, I would love to hear from everyone who is in the same boat as all of us! Be interesting to see how many other people are going through what we are!!!
Kelly xxx
Posted: 29/11/2006 20:13

Should be my period next week, 8th Dec, thats if I was taking the pill. I am so excited to think that I may be pregnant, going to try and stop myself from testing until Monday 5th Dec.

No signs of the period but had bad pains in stomach Sunday, not sure if it wasmy huge roast I ate or a little person forming! It still hurt/tender Monday morning.

Whould that be one of those signs people talk about when they say they were pregnant?? Hope so!!

x
Posted: 29/11/2006 20:28

How Cool

Fingers crossed Sam will have to let us know what happens. Not sure when im ment to come on so will have to check have a feeling i will be out of sink due to the pill can take longer to come on.

Hi Kelly

I am the same all i can think about is babys but its more of a recent thing for me like someone switched a light on in my head. My boyfriend couldnt belive it when i said i wanted to start trying.
Posted: 30/11/2006 08:39

Hi Sam,

it looks like we've got a similar cycle. I'm also due on the 8th and I would love for it to be this month as our wedding anniversary is on the 10th!!!

I know that I'm being really optimistic coz I was on the pill for 9 years!!!!

Hi Lisa,

I had the same 'switch' too. It's so weird how one day you're not thinking about it then the next it's all you can think of!!!!!

I agree that it's so good to have this forum to talk through all our baby stuff together! I feel like a bit of a fool when I gush all the time about babies.
Posted: 01/12/2006 13:40

Hi Michelle

Yeah tell me about it we've only been trying for a few weeks and already my boyfriends fed up of me going on about it so i starting writing a diary to put all my thoughts in to that he can read it if wants just helps me get it of my chest. Looks like ive got a similar cycle to you as well if i was on the pill i would be on around the 8 Decmber. I went and brought a baby mag just to get the low down so much info was abit of a shock. But have put it away for now will get it out again if i get preggers
Posted: 01/12/2006 14:07

Hi Lisa,

the diary is a great idea! I may have to do the same thing. Although we have both decided that we're trying, he said that he's not going to get excited about it until it actually happens. I can't stop talking about it and watching programs etc. I even picked up the mothercare catalogue the other day!!!!!

There is alot to take in and I'm trying not to be sucked in by all the do's and don'ts but it's so hard!
Posted: 01/12/2006 14:16

Hi Michelle

I know what you been it is hard i think this is a good website though gives you enough info with out going over board, it does get a little confusing when one says one thing another says something else. I am just trying to eat right not to much alcohol or tea and coffee and exercise. Am keep fingers crossed.
Posted: 01/12/2006 16:44

Hi Lisa,

me too. I'm also taking Sanatogen Pronatal as they seem to have all the right vitamins and folic acid that we need at this time. I think it's fair to say that we're all doing what's best and we just need to let nature do it's bit (just wish it was instant sometimes ; ) ).
Posted: 01/12/2006 16:51

Hi All

Sam did you take the test yesturday?

I think i have ovulated or am going through it have had some signs and a lot of movement feels like period pain but not as bad so have stepped things up a pace. Boyfriend has been walking round with a hugh smile on his face. Wasnt sure i would and seems abit of a funny time in my cycle.

Hi Michelle
Know what you mean wish it was instant too would save alot of people a lot of heart ache.
Posted: 05/12/2006 09:57

Hi All,

I'm not sure if I should take a test at some point this week or wait to see if I miss my period. Any suggestions?

Michelle
Posted: 05/12/2006 10:36

Hi Michelle

Well i think it is up to you, but if you take it to early you might not be making enough hormone for it to show up on the test. Also if you wait to see if you miss a period you may get a better result.
Posted: 05/12/2006 11:55

Hi Michelle

there is a artile on here called Testing for Pregnancy you may want to have a look at.
Posted: 05/12/2006 12:00

Hi Lisa,

will do. Thanks for that.

I'm just being impatient. I think I'm best waiting to see if I miss my period. I'll keep you posted.
Posted: 05/12/2006 12:12

Hi all

I'm Sioned in 25 and we're trying for our first baby, i was on the pill for 4 years, we've now been trying for 4 months, AF due 8th.

Babydust to all
Sioned xx.
Posted: 05/12/2006 15:49

Hi Sioned

Its very exciting good luck.

Ive gone abit baby mad keep looking info up and seeing how i can improve our chances of getting pregnant, i am one of those people thats a bit of a control freak, and not being able with this is very hard. At least i can do a little bit x
Posted: 06/12/2006 08:46

Hi all,
I am the same, looking at ways to improve our chances! I am glad I am not the only one! I am now awaiting AF due on the 20th, thats AGES away! I know its only our first month of trying but I am wishing the time away! Please tell me I am not alone!!!!??
Kelly xx
Posted: 06/12/2006 20:06

Hi Everyone,

I though I was the only one. My partner is sick of hearing me going on about babies. Up until 12 months ago I could not have tought of anything worse. Then like you say someone flick the swich. He asks me where the really Allie has gone some days.

I'm watching birthing and pregnacy programmes. Bought OV sticks and tablets and we've not even trying yet. We've decided to wait until the New Year and I have just wish the last 2/3 months away.

Not even interested in Xmas, thats just one more hurdle to get over.

27 days and counting for me.

Good Luck to everyone
Posted: 06/12/2006 21:34

Hi all

I know what you mean i have been wishing the days away should know in the next week whether i am pregnant, i am looking forward to taking the test but am scared to not sure how im going to take it if it is negative. The chances are so slim its amasing that people get pregnant at all.
Lisa x

Posted: 07/12/2006 12:21

Hi Girls,

had the last 2 days off of work as AF has arrived.

It's weird, I thought I would be more upset that I'm not pregnant this month. I think that because it's still early days I can look forward to next month. I'm not sure how I will cope if we're still waiting in 6 months.

Michelle
xxxx
Posted: 08/12/2006 22:14

Hi all

I am still waiting for my period if i was on the pill would be around now. Had some symptoms over the weekend. If it hasnt happen by Friday i think i will do a test. Just don't want to do it to early. Guess i will just have to wait and see.
Posted: 11/12/2006 14:47

Hi Lisa,

fingers crossed for Friday!!!! This is just one big waiting game!

I agree with what you said about how slim the chances are. Still, it doesn't explain why I'm surrounded by pregnant women!

My sister in law and my best friend are pregnant, both due next summer.

Sending lots of positive thoughts and babydust xxxxx
Posted: 11/12/2006 14:56

Hi all
Waiting is such a strange thing. The pregancy tests have got a lot better at being able to detect low levels of the pregnancy hormone (which starts to be produced once you conceive, but which there si a much higher level of by the time your period is due) but I think, especially as tests can be really expensive, that you're better off waiting - if you can!
love and best to all
Laura x
Posted: 11/12/2006 15:13

Hi all

Sorry that AF arrived for you michelle,

Af was due for me on Sat, still hasn't arrived, tested yesterday BFN so i don't know, i think that i ov'd later this month, maybe that has somethin to do with it.

Bbaydust to all
Sioned xx.
Posted: 11/12/2006 17:26

Hi Sioned,


Sounds like it could be because of that. If I were you, I would test again if it still hasn't arrived by this saturday.

I'll keep my fingers crossed for you.

Michelle
xxx


Posted: 11/12/2006 17:29

Hi Michelle

Thanks for the support, sorry to hear that AF arrived, its good that you are remaing postive. I know what you mean so many people i know are pregnant! Watched friends last night the one when Rahcel has Emma cried my eyes out dont really know why am so up and down at the moment.

Hi Sioned

Got my fingers crossed for you, i am waiting for my period too i think mine will be abit overdue as this is my first one after comeing of the pill.xx
Lisa
Posted: 12/12/2006 08:38

Hi Lisa,

Oh my god, that episode always gets me too!!!!

I'm just glad that I can get Christmas out of the way then we can concentrate on the baby making.

I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you and Sioned.

Michelle
xxxxxxxx
Posted: 12/12/2006 09:49

Hi all

Got my af today so not my month this time. Am happy though at least im working wasnt sure i would get one as first time off the pill. plus have more of an idea of what im looking for this time around.

Good luck to everyone else.
Lisa xxx
Posted: 14/12/2006 14:29

Just to let you know i was on the pill for 3 years. I stopped taking it at the end of june and now im almost 6 weeks pregnant. I felt like it would never happen, I took so many home pregnancy tests!

I would advise maybe using condoms until u get at least one period, before continuing to try for a baby!

Good luck x
Posted: 14/12/2006 15:02

Hi Lisa,

I'm sorry to hear that you got your af.

I'm sure that 2007 is going to be our year!!!!!!

Michelle
Posted: 14/12/2006 15:17

Hi Lynette

Thank you for the advise.

Hi Michelle

Its ok i pleased at least the waiting over was worried that i would be like a friend of mine she came of the pill and didnt have a period for two months. Am looking forward to the new year got my fingers crossed.

Lisa xx
Posted: 14/12/2006 16:43

Hi Lisa,

that's how I felt. I'm glad that I've had one proper period. I'm still not sure that waiting 3 cycles is necessary (maybe that's because I'm impatient!)

At least the stress of Christmas will be gone and we may both get a surprise in the New Year.

Babydust to all

Michelle
xxxx
Posted: 14/12/2006 16:50

Hi Girls,

I hope you are all looking forward to Christmas!!!!

Hi Sioned, did you test this weekend?

Apparently, this is my fertile week so fingers crossed something will happen this month.

I've not done an ovulation test before, are they worth it?
Posted: 18/12/2006 15:03

Hi Michelle

Not sure got abit carried away with mine ended up doing loads. Also when i did show natural signs that i was ovulating i did a test and had one strong line and one faint one which means its negative. But in saying that i may give them another try this time round, I am also taking my bb temperature and checking natural signs so ive got as much info as possible maybe ott but hey you only get a couple of days.
Posted: 19/12/2006 13:25

Hi Lisa,

when we both decided that it was our time to have a baby we said that we wouldnt go crazy and would just see how things went.

This is only my second cycle and I can feel myself getting frustrated already! I don't think I've mentioned this before but when I was a lot younger (16!) I had an abortion, so I know that I can get pregnant. I think this is where the frustratio is coming from. I'm trying be more logical in my thinking and saying to myself that it will happen when it's the right time. But the other side of me is all over the place!
Posted: 19/12/2006 13:34

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