hiya
Theo turns 2 in july and we are just starting. Like you nicole we have had the potty around for ages and tho he initially used to sit on it he now wont go anywhere near it at all! But since he was about 14 months he started hiding when doing a poo and now he either runs off and peeps out when he is doing one, or on a really good day, just as he is about to do it, he will say, "Mama, poo!" but when i ask him if he wants to go on the toilet or potty he just shakes his head. Also, he often wont tolerate being left in a dirty nappy now. He has also for the last 4/5 months started to hold himself as he is weeing so that is now a dead give away also.
i recently bought one of those seats that sits on the toilet so he can sit on our toilet and for the last few weeks we have been sitting on the toilet every morning when he gets dressed and every night before bed. Iv encouraged him to do a wee, and we will talk about it whilst he is trying, and he tells me where his wee comes from, etc but as of yet we havent had one! Although he is def getting used to going to the toilet at these times, and will even pull the lid down and flush and wash hands afterwards. if nothing else it is at least getting him used to the routine. I really want to take advantage of the summer and try and get him sorted asap as i think he is def nearning the point of being ready....i guess its just a case of being brave enough to take the plunge and stick to it!!
oh and gem - thats interesting, id never really thought about just sticking him in pants to associate the wetness,etc...thats def a good idea, def in summer!