Cass, I went back to work three months after having Michael, but only part-time. I say only part-time but it's enough!
My mum looked after Michael for a day a week in the early days, and then later he started going to nursery for a couple of days and my husband went to four days a week to be able to do one day. My reasons for going back to work were partly for the money and also because I wanted to keep my hand in and be more than a mother. It's not that I don't think being mother is valuable, it really is, but I wanted something else in my life too, some other focus. I thought it would be healthier all round.
Are you thinking of going back to work?