I know how that feels!! Its my birthday, I can't go anywhere because of the snow, my house is a tip and i think I am gonna end up spending the day cleaning just cos I'm so bored!! I didn' t even plan ahead and get something nice in for my dinner, or my tea. Birthdays suck!!!
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 Aww - Happy birthday hon xx
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 Morning everyone. SJ sorry tro hear you're feeling so down. He really needs to understand just how much strain your body is under at the moment. He certainly shouldn't nag you, i don't think they always understand just how much worry etc we have going through our minds at the moment. I know tey have to put up with us while we're like this, but ultimately it's our bodies and minds that are going through all the changes. James and i are the opposite, i feel really guilty as i don't really feel like i'm pulling my weight at the moment. I just get so tired and achey really easily. I'm meant to walk dog in mornings and James does evenings. Only done one morning this week (wasn't bloody doing it this morning, pissing it down with rain and sleet!) Also sorry to hear about your 4d scan that really sucks, i'd be disappointed too. Do you definately think you won't be having it done?Is there family are friends you could ask to all chip in as a Xmas pressie to you both? Don't know about everyone else but i feel baby a lot morenow which i am loving, but it's making sleeping so difficult as baby often doesn't like how i'm laying and will make it known she is not happy lol! Thanks Tina, Wendy and Lauren i feel better about discharge now. I got a bit more last than normal again last night, but all seems fine this morning. Can't remember who said about smell, but mine has is more 'musty' i suppose, not bad but different than normal. Don't want to get all 'woe-is-me' but got a tearful this morning as its the anniversary of my mums passing and it just made me sad thinking about how she will never know her granddaughter. It would have been her first grandchild and i get so sad coz i know she'd have been so excited. Anyway hope all mummies and bumps are ok? xxx
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 Happy Birthday Annwen!!! Morning guys, the snow has really peed me off. we dont have any in Barrow but we were supposed to be driving up to Scotland today and the M6 junctions 37-42 are full of snow apparently and the weather dudes said dont go anywhere unless you have to. I really really want to go home!!!!! I hate it in Barrow, it makes me depressed and just reminds me of things i dont want to be thinking about. I think Ben has gone back to front and is playing with my organs. Can feel him moving but not as prominant as when he sticks feet and things out making my whole bump move. Last night it felt like he was pinching my bladder, it was horrible!!!! Hope everyone has better days
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Rach, sorry to hear about your mum. I bet she would have been very proud and super excited. I think being preggie makes you think about the people you wish you had around that aren't. Just got all emotional reading that.... Charlie bump is super active, well he was at 3 this morning and he shows no signs of resting!
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Morning Rach we posted at the same time. Sorry to hear about your mum, thinking like that isnt all "woe is me" its only natural, especially now your going to become a mother yourself. Ben's back/head/bum pushed against my belly button this morning, wierdest feeling in the world!
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Thanks guys, i've pulled myself out of it now. It makes me sad, but i'll just have to make sure my little girl knows all about her nanny  Happy birthday Annwen (sorry didn't realize) u having a good morning so far? Sorry to hear that it sounds like you're stuck in Barrow Lauren. It's awful when u just want to be at home. Lol at Ben, has your bump gone all hard? Has anyone had the baby 'back-to-back' yet? I haven't, i've just heard it's really uncomfortable and wondered if any one has experienced it yet. Any news from Lisa today? Hope she and Bubble are ok. I kust keep thinking every extra day Bubble stays in the better chances s/he has. xxx
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Rach, your mom won't miss out on anything, it's just sad she won't be here physically.. BBN was messing about with my bladder last night too, was rubbish lol. x
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hey everyone, just managed to get kevs mum off the fone after an hour so have been catching up, rach sorry its not such a good day for you but im sure you mum will be watching over you and baba and she will see what a great little baby you have and what a great mum im sure you will be, im sure if she could tell you she would be proud of everything you have achieved. annwen glad to hear charlie bump has been entertaining you, hayden bump has been the same i was really uncomfortable last night ive got a bad shoulder which doctor said is really common for mums to get from picking babas up, and have siatica which is a real pain in the ass as cant get up easily and when casey woke me up at 2-3am it made it start hurting again!i have an aching pain down the back of my right leg which feels like when you have cramp and its going away, i get cramp in my legs whenever i stretch and it makes my leg mussles have some kind of spasum when it goes god im falling apart anyway thats my moan over with sorry guys! sj im really sorry to hear you are having such a crap time, your not sat at home just because you cant be assed to work its because you have a way more important job to be getting on with and yes you can do bits and bobs round the house but sometimes not everything can be done and it makes you fell theres no point if you are just being critisised and your efferts are just being distroyed, it sounds abit like the more effert you put in the more your expected to take on, and ultimately you are going to have a 24 hr job to be getting on with when your babies here so who will be the one not pulling there weight then. you need this time now to let your bady addapt cause you dont get much chance after babas born. god im on a right rant today! happy birthday annwen hope you have a good day and you could get a takeaway for tea if you have nothing in it is your special day! hey lauren sorry about the snow, hope you manage to make it back home dont get too stressed ben wont like it! becareful travelling back xx
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I'm just frustrated with it all really. x
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Ah guys, you're going to set me off again lol! I know she'll be looking over us. Do u lot sometimes wake up with cramp in one of your legs? My right one goes dead alot in the night and waked me up, it's really annoying! Think Peanut has finally decided to have a snooze. She was wriggling loads last night and this morning, but has gone quiet now. Bless her. I love that i feel her so much more now. xxx
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 HAPPY BIRTHDAY HUN!! and big hugs to everyone who is feeling down (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((BIG BIG HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
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Morning Nic, thanks for the hugs, right back at ya! We've just had people in testing our fire alarms, Peanut is not impressed with all the noise. They've woken her up! xxx
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we have just got out a load of xmas decorations casey love it, kev popped home for quick coffee, but gone again now we decided were going to go and look for a xmas tree tonight. kev has got some extra work coming up at the weekend doing a second job cause we need the money after going to the council and not getting any help, so he will basically be working everyday and some nights and only have sunday to get some sleep! hes determined to do it cause he hates us not being able to afford things but its just at a big expence. his friend had an accident the other night falling asleep at the wheel luckily he was ok but the van was a complete right off and if there had been something coming in the other direction he could of been killed or killed someone else! it really worries me that he has to push himself this far just for us to get by, and on sunday im going to have to make sure casey is really well behaved cause with no sleep kev is miserable and grumpy and dont want our only day off together to be shit!hey ho hopefully it will be ok! just had a load of vouchers through from babies r us, money off nappies and £5 off when you spend £30 and stuff so not bad. virgin media were also quite helpful yesterday we havnt paid our phone bill yet but they rang and said we could pay off £10 a week until we had abit more cash so that was nice of them normally they would just cut you off! hopefully they dont do that! its quiet on here today! sorry for my long moaney message!xxxxxxxxxxx
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poor peanut!how high up is everyone getting their kicks mine feel really high up about 4 inches above my belly button im getting worried Haydens getting too big too fast! nice to know hes there though! hugs right back to you nic!xxxxx
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hey congratulations deb, your baby was born on my husbands birthday fireworks night! have had a look at your items but already have those bits from first time around. hope you find some nice things for cameron, there seems to be pregnant people everywhere so im sure you will sell your stuff easily! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Annwen Happy birthday to you happy birthday to you! Rach sorry to read that you are feeling down, I really feel for you. I think your mummy will be watching over you too. The Cramp thing I have had in my feet a few times! Realy painful! I actaully sneezed in the night and It really really hurt my belly! For a few seconds it was agony! I did read that some of you have had this before, things it ligaments and sudden movements! Was horrible though! SJ you are down too this sucks! And about your scan. Its horroble when you have your heart set on something. I have had a few issues with my OH he is generally very very good but he has started to nag me a bit RE pulling my weight etc. I am temping at the mo so if I take a day off I don’t get paid. My viewi s that if my body tells me I need to rest or take a day off I will as that’s the most imp thing but he is stressing about money and says you cant affrod to take the day off, we have conflicting views which I guess to a degree is natural. My OH doenst get my worrys either he is really chilled and the complete opp of me!!!!!!! I feel really achy at the mo too, I think baby is lying akwardly on my and its really pushing my bladder and down tto my bits!! Feel heavy and achy! Re Lisa I read somewher that the chances of survial of babies goes up by 3-4% PER DAY from 24 weeks onwards. How amazing is that. I amf eeiong really hopeful for her. I had a right stress this am too, some horrible builders were in my way when I was trying to park at work they didn’t even make eye contact at me or make any effort to move their van so I could get by in the car. I was desperate for a wee and could feel my stress levles rising! I nearly very nearly shouted at them but held it together! We are such a moody hormonal emotional bunch! Its so funny! At least weare all going through the same kidn of things eh! x
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oh and my kicks are still pretty low but I think baby is still breech. howeer they do move round quite a bit, some are in line with belly button some are really low at pubic bone. xx
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