I'm now sulking majorly.. I thought I'd be really good and sweep and mop the kitchen floor and hoover the lounge, which is normally Vid's job.. text him and told him that I'd done it, and that I was knackered... and he called me saying "well that's cuz you don't do anything so it will wear you out" not "thank you, but take it easy, lugging the hoover around" grrr. I don't think he understands how much it wears you out incubating a baby and carrying it around everywhere.

Not the response I expected.. grr.

lol Rach other than the insensitive OH, yeah I was feeling much better. Worked out finances on paper and it all works out okay, and Vid and I seem to be much closer and getting on so much better... think it's cuz I'm trying to keep my hormones in check...

Seems like a bad day all round yesterday xx

thats abit mean SJ i would of been upset with that too, i said to kev this morning that i had so much to do but it seems like i cant get much done but he said just to prioritise which is good idea! i have to go to dreaded council office again so hope theres no idiots there today! thats the main thing i have to get done then have to make room in the living room for xmas tree to go up when we get it. i hoovered and mopped the living room and kichen yesterday but the dogs have left foot prints on the floor again this morning, thats what i mean about doing a job but feeling like you dont get anywhere! got to stick a load of washing on in a min as casey is running out of sleepsuits, i have had to wrap him up with 3 layers to make sure he doesnt get cold it was freezing lastnight!

glad your feeling alittle better rach, it awful when you just dont feel right and just eed someone to tell you everything is ok!

tina ive added you on my FB now and you r wedding pics are beautiful i wish we had a BBQ at ours like you wedding, maybe we will do it again sometime!

casey is now distroying the virgin TV box so must go before something else gets broken hes into everything these days!!ahhh

sorry for long post were all at it today if anyone does tx lisa could you let her know im thinking of her cause i dont have her number and like SJ said dont wabt to bombard her! love us xxx

I think we all were just so emotional and upset for Lisa yesterday. It all had to come out at some point. I'm just glad i was at home coz i was a mess and looked like a goth cross panda when i had finally stopped bawling and James had mascara stains all over his shirt!

I can't believe Vid's reaction lol ... charming! I think you're well within you're right to have a sulk. Growing a baby is hard work and bloody knackering. I can't even go upstairs without getting out of breath. So well done for attemting the hoovering i haven't done that in weeks! James hoovers i dust lol!

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morning guys!!

im glad Lisa is ok, well as ok as can be expected.  ive been checking my phone and the forum every hour or so for updates since monday.  its a horrible waiting game 

blimey yesterday was knackering, Darren decided we would "blitz" the house, so theres me thinking it was going to get a good old clean, but he went through every single drawer and cupboard throwing things away.  His hoover is crap and actually started to hurt my bump when i was trying to do it so we have decided to bring my dyson down next time i visit.

we also managed to fix the zip on the mattress so we dont have to buy a new one now, we just pushed all the stuffing back in and then turned it over, Lucy knew she was in trouble so steered well clear on the spare room!! 

i had three yoghurts before i went to bed and it was a BIG mistake, i felt sick for ages and couldnt get to sleep, it nearly got to the stage where i wanted to get out of bed to make myself sick just so i could get some sleep.

Darren gives the exact same reactions as Vid, im used to it now.   

Sounds like you had a busy day Lauren. I'm exhausted just reading about it lol!

I'm lucky really, James tells me off when i try and do too much housework, says i need to be taking thing easy. I think we all need to be taking it easy now really. Especially in light of what has been going on. I'm glad that like you said Lauren, considering the situation Lisa and Bubble seem to be ok. I'm keeping everything crossed for them. I wish all our thoughts alone could help her through.

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i feel soooo drained today - got no energy used it all last night i think lol i havent cried like that in years!!! but i must admitt i feel better for it, i no crying doesnt help anything but i made me feel better

26 weeks and still teeny tiny! In defense i am wearing one of Darrens ti shirts! at least its showing through clothes now!! 

Aaaaw Nic, that's how i feel today. I properly wailed last night, was exhausted by the time i stopped. Think like you i really needed to let it out! Sending u a hug my love, thats all i wanted last night!  Baba did kick alot while i was crying think she was telling mummy off for being silly!

Bless Lauren, your bump is so cute. I'm starting to feel huge. Tried my dress on for Xmas party last night (not good when i'm in an over-emotional state) it fits, but i just feel i look huge, though James assured me i looked lovely and would be the most stunning girl there (bulls**t, but bless him anyway!)

I need to get some more bump pics up, i'll try and do that this week.

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right girls.. I'm officially on mat leave lol. Doc has signed me off till official date because I'm getting too stressed at work.

Vid came home and made a mess in my kitchen as well lol. GRR. I think I might be nesting.

think I might do some lunch....

Oh SJ, i'm jealous wish i could go on maternity leave now. Well i hope being off makes you feel a lot better and you can start getting ready for BBN!

Hi Anne, i know it upset me too hearing about little Hope i hope her sister can stay strong.

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whilst we are all hormonal.........does anyones hormones turn them into a bitch??

from about 12 weeks pregnant i have been bitching about EVERYTHING, before getting pregnant i rarely used to bitch about anything, especially people but now things are annoying a lot easier and i just go off on one, Darren just looks at me all funny and waits for me to finish ranting! 

whats really annoying me at the moment is people not having the balls to say things to your face or leaving cryptic messages!!!!

GRRRRR

see you can probably tell im home alone and have no one to rant to lol 

U can always rant to us Lauren. Wouldn't say i have been bitching more, but things that wouldn't normally wind me up really do at the moment. And James says my temper is a lot shorter and tend to snap easily now. It must be hormonal as i am normally quite an easy going person.

Anyway, if you want to, rant away my love!

its not even anything specific, and it doesnt even have to affect me and im off on one lol

wierdest thing is knowing that i do it.

I'm getting more wound up, which makes me bitch, but then I have always been like that and I will also always say anything to someones face.

I'm starting to feel a bit upset about things today, like the fact that I've made a big effort to clean up and Vid has just kinda made hurtful remarks... and then he came home and made himself some lunch and just left the mess in the kitchen, didn't wipe down the sides or anything.. he also sat here for over an hour before going back to work then asks me to walk the dogs as he's going back out, when really he could have done it while I was at the docs...

Also.. bit embarassing but heyho... Vid and I haven't really had sex since I fell pregnant, wasn't so bad before bump appeared but as soon as there was a little bump sex stopped and we've probably had sex 3 times in as many months... but I've been trying not to pressurise him about it because I know it's not fair, but I came back from the docs and walked in on him just finishing up masturbating.. and that kinda hurt me a bit because it was like he was waiting for me to go out to do it.

Don't wanna say anything to him about it either because I don't want to create an arguement where there isn't one.

im the same lauren - my friend was sayin this baby has made me evil!!! lol but i cant help it, it just comes out, i shouted at DH oe time for forgetting to get garlic bread!! i went mad lol but after 10mins i apologised just dont know where it comes from. i have no paitance at the mo

Oooo i got really pissed of this morning as my sis (think i told you about her, bit self-involved) has 'apparantly' got engaged according to her FB status. This is hpw she chooses to tell the family, spoke to my dad and bro neither know a thing about it. Tried ringing her several times this morning.... no answer.

What annoys me more is that they have always been on/off, he has drink and trust issues and she has commitement and trust issues... a month ago they 'parted-ways' for good. Got back together about 2 weeks ago sayin that they were going to start again from the beginning and now apparantly engaged! AND she thinks it is appropriate to tell FB before family!

xxx