hi all.

eri - hi hon. i have everything crossed for you. just hope the worst dosn't happen. stay positive and keep us informed hon. sending big hugs baby dust and glue xxx

hi loopy - hope your feeling better. you feel like your coming down with something? keep your fluids up, put your feet up and relax for a bit. take care.

well better go. will sign on later. watching x factor xxx 

hey girls - I'm sorry for the delay.

Unfortunately A&E were absolutely shite yesterday but it has been more or less confirmed that I am having another MC. No idea why, no one will look into the reasons why a healthy 24 yr old has had her second mc in the space of 3 months.

I am so fed up. If I weren't so desperate for a baby I'd give up now cos I just feel there's got to be something wrong with me.

She didn't do any bloods or anything, just told me what will be will be. But I'm still young and all that rubbish that you really don't want to hear.

So maybe I'll be on here again in a few months seeing as I don't seem to have trouble conceiving, and then I may well be gone again if it happens a 3rd time. I feel slightly stronger this time, but I am so devastated. I feel completely inadaquete as a woman.

I hope all your pregnancies go well, I will check on here from time to time. I'll miss you girls!!

Take care, Erika xxx

Eri, im so so sorry hunny. I really am.

The NHS are crap arent they, a bit of sympathy wouldnt go a miss really would it.

Thinking of you hun.

xxxx

hi everyone else. hope you are all well?

ok so this is now the bump at 26+5. getting bigger now. still not a massive bump but friends who havn't seen me for a little while have all commented on how i have grown!! its getting exciting now.  3 months left yay xxx

well had a fab weekend. went to local steam railway and saw paddington bear yesterday. was a good day and the weather was fab too. and the best thing is my sisters 14month old took her first steps!! and to Tim of all people! i think it may have upset them slightly it was to tim and not them but happy all the same too.

well off to work soon but gonna put feet up until then. def getting more achey and tired nowerdays.

emma - any more news? counting down the days for ya xxx 

thanks girls. you all ok?

been getting period type cramps for the past day or two. they seem to come and go. do you think this could be practice contractions? feels like the type of cramps you have at the start of labour. but not regular and only every hour or so. i hope not!!! not painful so not worried but def uncomfortable. keep going to loo to check im not bleeding cos it def feels like that sort of cramp. arghhhhh!!! xxx 

Splendid bump Natty!  Maybe the cramps are Braxton Hicks?  Have no experience of them but have read about them!  Check with mw if you're unsure.

I think I might be a little anaemic, particularly as I'm veggie.  So I've started on my multi-vitamins again, which I stopped around week 13.  Apparently they're ok through all stages of pregnancy, so I'll see how I go.

Eri - That is utterly, uterrly rubbish.  I am sorry that A: you're going through hell again; and B: A&E weren't very sympathetic. 

All I can suggest is that you talk to your doctor when you're ready.  I know a lot of areas don't start investigating until after the third mc (let's hope you don't have to go there) - but some doctors are more understanding and make an exception.  Given your age, perhaps they will look more favourably on doing a few tests.

Big hugs to you and your other half.  Stay strong for each other.  You have one another, and that's important xxx

Well I better stop slacking and do some work

Hi Laura and Claire, how you guys doing?

And forgot to say...glad there are fellow X Factor fans on here.  Anyone have their favourites yet? 

I like that girl with the straggly greasy hair (lol dont know her name) I also like the young lad who is always crying and the daddy who lost his wife during childbirth (

x claire x

Eri my heart goes out to you hunnie im so so so sorry to read what you have gone through sending big hugs to you and your OH xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

OO i like the young lad he sooo sweet bless him (blonde hair i think) oh and erm another one but forgot his name lol

im not normally Xfactor fan but since there is nothing on the TV ever i am now lol

X FACTOR LOVE IT LOVE IT LOVE IT

i loveAlan. he is my Favorite. he is the one with the brown spikey hair. doing it for his foster family. And the man who lost his wife in child birth. and Alexandra who got through in 2005 and then got sent home. oh its great.

Im fine thanks Loopy thanks for asking hunny. hope your well

xxxx

Wow Natty - love your bump hun - sooo jealous!

Thanks for all your messages girls, really appreciate it. Feel slightly happier cos I rung my surgery and they got one of the docs to call me. He said there's a tablet that I can take to hopefully stop the recurrent mc's. Been looking up on it and it could be something in my gene's or bloods, not sure as it all baffles me a bit. Anyway, I'm going to see the docs in a week or so when everythings calmed down and he'll have to refer me to a gynaecologist (spelling is awful sorry!). Hopefully that's what they'll do anyway, they'd better not change their minds. I think my age and health is working in my favour. It just shouldn't be happening. Doesn't help the mental and phsyical pain that much at the mo but I just want to get to the bottom of it and get passed the implantation stage. Anyhow, now I've written an essay I'm going to love you and leave you all!! Take care xx

Hi Girls!

Eri- oh I am so sorry huni for the bad time you are going thrugh...and the NHS are totally rubbish!!

I have just got bk from the MW 39wks......got good and bad news!

Bad news I have strep b.....but they are glad they finally found out why my cysts keep coming bk etc...so I am on antibiotics now...and have to go on to a drip for half an hour whn in labour....and then every 4 hours depending on how long it takes etc. but as soon as my waters go and I am @ home.....i need to go strait in!! But so glad they know about it etc....as if they dint baby would be in danger etc!

Good news...this little madam is now fully engaged...and the MW has said any day now...and to have lots of sex..HA!! She could only just feel her shoulder's!! She did make me an 40wk appointment but she said I very much doubt I will need it!! Thats a week 2day!!! I am sooo happy!! But knowing this little one I will still be sat here with a big bump next week..LOL.

Lots of love Emma+ Olivia xxx

Oh wow - congrats Emma, I can't wait to see pics of Little Olivia!! Bet you can't wait!!

Hope all goes well for and labour is fairly quick!! xxx

Am I stupid not knowing what TTC or BFP is?

TTC- trying to conceive

BFP- Big fat positive

he he I was the same huni!

xxx