Hi - I am in the 2ww, this is our first month of trying for our 2nd child. Our first baby was a surprise and he is now 20 months and has been the best 2 years of my life!!! Where we werent trying before and now we are and i have read all the books, every twinge i get or anything like that i think could this be it - but then i keep thinking that maybe i am not oulating (paanoid!!!). I have put on 2 stone since having harrison but since coming off the pill in jan (too get cycle sorted) they have been 28 days, how would i know if im not ovulating? Due to test next thurs but having alot of backache and need wee alot but again dont know if im imagining things!!! Please help!!!

mother nature can be so mean!! LOL the only way to find out for sure if you are ovulating is a blood test/scan with the doctor, you can do ov tests but sometimes these say you are ovulating but your progesterone level is not correct, and consequently you dont get pregnant!! This has happened to both me and a close friend of mine!!! I guess you will just have to wait and preg test!!! good luck!! xx