hey there sorry didn't mean to sound like i was dismissing your advice thank you for taken the time to even help me out was so nice of you... think everyone has there ups and downs no matter what kind of person they are, have enrolled in an open uni course in Law so looking into that and see where that can take me, decided to maybe better myself for my family sake, might take some stress off of everything?

yeah sometimes outside help is not the answer and some people are effected in ways that can only really be delt with over time, thank you for your comments was very kind of your to say so....

i try my best with James always have done give anything to make him and my partner (daniel) happy... thats all the really matters in life you know... think what is happening will take time to sort itself out but will get there in the end.

yeah not bothering about him at all not sure whats going on with him friends are not really main part of my life, never really need a people person so just one less person to have to worry about, tbh he said he was joking but i told him was not in the mood and was hurt and he never stopped so.....

thanks i am sure there will be light even if i have to work towards it lol...

thanks for replying hun take care

hope all well there with kiddies and pregnancy...

take care

From Lynne

P.S ruby is a lovely name

Lynne, I didnt read it as though you were dismissing my advise at all hon so dont worry! I just think if anything you've got all bases covered! I find it helpful talking to people on here so if Ive helped you that makes me feel good! Obviously I can never really do much for you but Im always happy to listen! As I said i think you know exactly where you're going in life & yeah things may be a bit difficult between now & when you get to that point, but that is life & you will deal with it in your own way! Like you said, making James & Daniel happy is number one priority & is really important in life! Making yourself happy is also a priority! The law course you are looking into sounds really interesting, hopefully that will all work out okay for you - a new challenge & all that!

Glad you like the name Ruby! Im off home soon, so I'll say goodbye for now. Keep your chin up! xxx

thanks hun means alot to me, thanks for helping... yeah sadly life isn;t always the way we want it to be....

yeah my sister is named after my auntie ruby, but her real name is Rebecca, lol so cute, either way...

okay hun hope you have a lovely night with the kids and that, thanks again for helping so much.