Hi, i had a miscarraige when i was just over 3 months pregnant, as i'm sure those of you who have experienced this, it's a very tough time. This was my first pregnany. It happened 2 years ago.
I'm now wanting to try for a baby. Has anyone been through the same thing? Have you had any complications the second time round? What should i avoid? I'm coming off the pill this week and starting folic acid and monitoring my diety and exercise. What else would you advise?
Thanks alot for anyone who can help
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 louise come and join us on trying for a baby after miscarriage thread. theres not many of us but were very friendly and we have just started getting some BFPs so its all very exciting! and everyone on there had been in your shoes. xxxx
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hi louise, just like to say, take it easy, try not to worry just take your folic acid or "pro-natal" or the like and eat healthily thats about all you can do really, i had a miscarriage just before xmas last year and because of my age we tried again imediatly, im now 18 weeks pregnant with a healthy baby, so it can all be fine, my miscarriage was a blighted ovum and was discovered at about 14 weeks, hope this has been of help to you, and all the best xxx
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Hi, I had a miscarriage at the end of July and we have just started trying for another baby. I am doing healthy eating and regular exercise and of course taking folic acid. WOuld be nice to find other people who are also trying and know if there are any other tips.
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 Hi, just thought i would add again to this thread - im the same person as above (karen willis) and unfortunately, am in the throws of another miscarriage, im waiting for nature to take its course at the moment, the baby/sac has already gone, i lost it the day after i discovered i was pregnant!!!!  so onwards and upwards, so C all the very best to you and hopefully you will have a healthy baby this time - will it be your first??? love and best wishes to all who have gone through miscarriage, also there is a bunch of brilliant girls on the "new lucky ttc thread" - join them there!!! hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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| Edited: 02/09/08 21:27 |
Miska, try not to worry - what are the pills for???? have never heard of them! the only pills you should now be taking is "folic acid" to give your baby the very best chance whilst you are trying. I'm sure that when you try again all will be well, I've had 9 pregnancies and have 6 great kids, i've had bad luck too but theres lots of good too, im going thro a miscarriage at the moment and this time it HAS taken its toll, but im so much older than you so you should try again without fear!!! All the very best to you, take care of yourself and step forward! xxxxxxxxxxx
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 Hi.....I'm new here.......just miscarried at 10 weeks on 25th August while on holiday in France. I have an 11 year old daughter. I had two m/c's at 6 and 8 weeks a matter of 6 months apart a year after my daughter was born. We would dearly love another child but at over 40 am wondering if it's meant to be! Don't know whether to wait to try again or just keep hoping and let nature take her course.
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 Oh hun that must be so hard. I miscarried this year but am fortunate to have fallen pregnanat again. All i can say is never give up hope - you may be 40 but doesn't mean your not supposed to have another baby. It will happen when you least expect it. Good Luck hun xxx
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Thanks Sarah........life not been too good to me....my husband was killed in an accident in 2006....2nd year anniversary of that next month,we were only married for 18 months. It had all turned around when met my new fella late last year......deeply in love and so very happy until this was sent to try us. We will be fine we are very strong and will see what happens.
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oh hun so sorry to hear that. Life is always unfair to nice people. Just be strong , don't give up on your dreams because they will come true. I almost gave up after the miscarriage but i'm glad i didn't. Everything happens for a reason and perhaps it was your bodies way of saying the baby wasn't healthy. Keep trying hun  and smile xx
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We will.....I always do when I don't feel exhausted!!! . Off to see if can get some sort of tonic from chemist.......feel soooo washed out at the moment even though getting loadsa sleep!! Thanks so much. Jacci.xx
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 jacci just read your posts and i have tears rolling down my cheeks. i am so sorry to read what u have been through and i am happy to read that u have found happiness again. 40 is not too old to conceive another baby. i too had a mmc in dec 07 a chemical pg in march 08 and now still trying to conceive. i have no other living babies. i lost a babba boy at 26 weeks a few years back. when u are ready babe come over to the "new lucky TTC thread" all the girls are so supportive and have great advice. hope to see you there. take care xxxx
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es Thanks for your post. We have all been through a lot by the sounds of it......life throws some cruel blows but each one makes you stronger thats the only way to look at it. I have only just found this site and am sure that it will be a great place to get to know you all and help prop each other up!! I will get over to the thread you mention........We are just so thankful we have my daughter and my partners two boys. What will be will be. Catch you around Jacci.xx
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i had a mc in june this year and i am now 5wks3days fingers crossed for all the ladies trying after a mc
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