hey all is it just me or am i not normal i am 3 months pregnant with my first child and have gt no sex drive atal since gettin pregnant im stil with my partner (the baby's dad) and he duznt understand he thinks ive went off him i just don't feel like doing it

Completely normal.
I was the same until about 6 months then couldn't get enough until too big to manage at around 8 months and we just gave up.
Just try and do little things to make him feel wanted as if he's like most blokes he'll lose his self esteem if he doesn't get any attention for a while, and after the baby's born he'll have a whole set of other obstacles to worry about.
I've had 3 kids and can tell you it's really hard on a relationship. Just remember to communicate as much as possible and have as much physical contact as you can.
Good luck x

thanks alot hoophoop xx

Hey, I feel really sorry for my OH as this has got to be a record. I went off it right away, and my son is now 11weeks old, and still no mojo!!! lol I think I'm just too tired at the minute... x x x

Don't worry, From what I've heard 6 months after the birth is standard. Just make sure your OH doesn't take it personally.
I know it's hard but if you can make some time for yourselves everyday, even if it's just a cuddle or a snog it will help. Also, I find that if my libido is low I can get more in the mood by visualising us having great sex, during the day when we're apart, then when I see him I feel up for it.
Good luck xxx