 Hello there Vicky! How you doing? How is life treating you? I hope you alright! You said you are moving house..right? You should take it easy girl!! Is there anyone helping you?? I gotta admit that reading your post made me blush....Huh...Having sex every day...i am really envy!!! I just can not wait for me and husband to get back to normal as well..Hopefully we can get a bit naughty by the end of this week. And as soon as i have a proper period we can start tyring for a baby again!! Can not wait!! Yeah...it was a quick decision we made but no regrets! I knew he was the one the minute i saw him and i never been happier!I thank god every day that he is mine and still don't believe in my luck...as he feels the same. All we need for our perfect happiness now is a baby....We both love babies!!! WHO DOESN'T??? By the way...I have passed!!!! At first i thought that they are fooling me as it was fools day today...so i had to ask my instructor if i heard it right. But she had confirmed it...and i still can not believe it.It's a proof that good things can happen to me..still. It made my day..i'm quite pleased!! I actually wanted to cancel it earlier due to what happened to me...as i had quite difficult 2 weeks behind....I am glad i didn't!! You're only 22...right? You know what..if i was you i would't be worried!! You have plenty of time...and i am quite sure the way you and your guy heading ...in a year time you are going to hold your baby in your arms....wanna bet?? You will see!!! Have to go now! Hope to hear from you soon!! Keep on smiling!!! Nadia X
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 hi nadia, well done on passing your test!! yeah moving house, got the keys this morning, i had my soon to be mother in law helping me yesterday i was so tired last night was in the bath for nearly a hour could of fell asleep. it took ages to do mostly my clothes, shoes and bags its so bad think my spare room will have to be a wardrobe! my fella doesnt get in until half 5 so im doing the light things today all the heavier stuff will have to wait until tonight, my new house is literally 10 steps away from my old one lol so i havent got far to carry things. was living in a 2 bedroom flat moving into a 3 bedroom house. we need the space now his son is with us and hopefuly a spare room for a new one! i started taking my folic acid again today so we'll see what my mood turns out like i was a right cow last time but it has to be took. well i better get on again. im sure we both will have babies by next year! speak soon take care, vicky xx
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Hello Vicky! How is everything with you? I hope you alright! Any news? There's not much happening here....that's why you haven't heard from me for a while. I am back on Folic Acid plus taking some Calcium as well. My hair is falling out and i'm worried that i'm going bold....My hair was soooo strong and now after the m/c i just seem to loose a lot of it....it's not quite normal!!! Might be the stress i'm going through. I'm back to work since last wednesday and it's just been crazy there...My boss gone crazy..he's a proper idiot..and i'm now not sure if i want to work there anymore...Problems....But since i'm trying to get pregnant probably it's not a good idea to change job now...isn't it???? What do you think? My husband says to stay and go to maternity leave from there...as he thinks it's only a matter of time before it happens again.. ..Fingers crossed!!! So yeah...we are back in track.. I know it's probably to early to start trying again as i haven't had my period yet....but i feel fine!!! My bleeding has stopped a week ago,no pain! So we'll see...I can't wait to get pregnant again...I can not think about anything else but babies. I just want to give one to my husband so bad...He deserves it,he's going to be an excellent dad!!! Gotta go now! ( watching CSI....) Hope to hear from you soon! Nadia x
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Hello Vicky!! I haven't heard from you for a while..so i though to drop you a line. Is everything alright with you? How you getting on with TTC...? I still haven't had my period yet...there isn't any sign of it neither.Just can not wait to start trying for baby again!! Hope to hear from you soon! Nadia X
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Dear Nadia. I've been reading threads on here a while but new to the message board, so 'hi'. Like you i have had a d&c and still waiting for my period and it seems like eternity! My hubby & I haven't exactly abstained but not back to normal. My main problems are i need clomid to ovulate as i was diagnosed last summer with polycystic ovaries. This is my 2nd m/c. My first was 14 months ago, i had d&c then too but period never arrived & it was then they diagnosed me so i went on clomid and have had regular cycle ever since. A god send when you get zero believe me! Anyway, i firmly believe that having the d&c gives us a spring clean in there so we're clean as a whistle and very fertile! Good luck. Emma x
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Hey Emma! Just read your mail..thank you!! Welcome to the forum!! It's a great place to be..you never left alone and there's always someone to talk to!!! This forum became an addiction to me...I'm really happy to be here!! Sorry to hear your story!! Truly you must have gone though a really tough and emotional time!! You must be a really strong person... How are you feeling now? Are you back on trying for a baby now? What did the doctor say to you?? Just like you I also had a m/c...had been diagnosed on my 12 weeks scan.Had d&c done almost 4 weeks ago.I haven't had period yet..but i don't even feel like if it's coming any soon...no sore breast...nothing..!!! My periods always been regular before. I must admit that I've been a bit naughty and had unprotected sex with my husband...even that it would have been nice to wait at least a month.But I thought since I was feeling fine it's OK. I just needed to get myself back to normal...I am desperate for a baby!! Sorry to be curious..but how old are you Emma? Has it been taking you long to conceive in your last pregnancies?? Gotta go now. Looking forward to hear from you again!! Take care! Nadia x
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Hi Nadia. I'll be 31 in 2 weeks and we've been ttc almost 2.5 years so i've had some success, despite the disapointments afterwards! How about you? I have complete understanding how you must feel, especially how desperate it can be. In the time i've been trying to get pregnant, its feels like the world is doing it. I have a couple of friends who know what its like but other than that, this forum is a great invention. Every time i find out someone i know has made it i feel green with envy, letting off steam to my husband doesn't really work, men think completely different to us women don't they? My mum's been great though. The 14 months between my 2 pregnancies very stressful but now I'm starting to relax a little. I have started reflexology and i cannot tell you how great it is. You feel really relaxed and energised. If you're not ticklish on your feet, i'd recommend it. Take care, speak soon Emma x
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Hello there Emma! I'm 31 y.o...Have been married for a year now. My husband and I have decided to try for a baby last September...so I came off the pill which I only been taking for less than 6 months. By January I was pregnant..quite quick!! But unfortunately I miscarried at 12 week as I said before. We are now back on trying again...even that my GP says that I should wait 2 months. My husband has been a real great support to me...without his positive energy I wouldn't had been able to do it.That's why I'm so desperate to give him a baby...he SO deserves one and his going to be an excellent daddy for sure!! Tell me about being envy.... Believe me,I know what you're talking about!!! I work as a Catering Manager, and the place I work is quite child friendly.We have this kinda Kid's Club on every Tuesdays...It's 2 hours entertainment for toddlers and it's always busy..quite mad to be honest. So imagine me seeing all this happy mothers with their children... And of-course many of them pregnant again with a big baby bump. It's really hard for me to stay calm and not to get emotional. I often question..."why them..why not me??? Why can't I be that lucky?" Do you think it's normal at all? I am actually leaving my job now...partly 'coz of that but there are other main issues as well. So please don't think that I'm freaky... Have to go..didn't realise that it's this late...huh!!! Speak to you soon! Nadia X
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hi nadia, with me moving house my internet has just come on now! its taken ages! ive got some news ............i'm pregnant!!! last monday i has been feeling crap and i was a week late my boobs were killing and thats not a normal thing for me with periods so went to adsa and did a test it was the middle of the afternoon but it came up a strong positive straight away, i tested again tuesday mornin again strong pos. went to the docs on monday afternoon and its all confirmed. this monday i went to a early pregnany clinic and got a load of leaflets and books and a bounty pack. i have my first appointment with the midwife on the 6th may. im about 6/7 weeks and my estimated due date is 12/12/08. im so excited. tell you nadia this pregnancy feels so different from the first one, i didnt really feel pregnant the first time but this one i am feeling really shite. i told my mam and dad yesterday and they were very excited, fingers crossed all is going to be good. ive been itching to come online to tell you, anyway. still no period? when were you due? remember mine took a whole month until mine came. im sure you'll get preggers soon! anyway got loads of emails to check speak soon vicky xxx
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 Hi Vicky, just wanted to say congratulations on the pregnancy, rlly happy 4u xxxxx
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Hey Vicky!! Finally...So glad to hear from you!! I was a bit worried to be honest...but HEY!!!...You pregnant girlie!!! It's such an excellent news!! I'm SOOOO.... happy for you!! You deserve it really...!! WOW..I can't stop smiling!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! So you must be over the moon,right?? But you know that now you gotta take it EXTRA easy! No moving houses..etc!! Do you really feel different this time around? They say that every pregnancy that you are going to have will be completely different from each- other...I also heard that being sick is a good sign in pregnancy! Well..with mine I wasn't at all!! But hey..I must say you got pregnant quite quickly!! Maybe I should consider to have sex every day from now-on!! Yeah...still no period here.It's been 29 days since the op. so it's not like if it's late or something...but you know..!! I just want to finally get to that point when I can start all over again! Waiting for it feels like forever!! How is everything in general? I'm leaving work..it's my last day tomorrow.It was so stressful that I couldn't cope anymore. I haven't look for another job yet as I had no time...but no rush. I am going to take it easy for a while...might go on a holiday or something. And who knows...might get pregnant in the meantime and then I'm sorted!! Fingers crossed!! Have to go now! Once again...I am so glad for you!!! Best of luck!!! Speak to you very soon!! Nadia XXX
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hi nadia, thanks for the congrats! i feel like shite nearly every minute of every day, i cant wait to go for a scan, i still cant help but worry alittle at least a scan will show everything is ok. im off work this week im full of cold which i cant shift cos i cant take anything, so i am taking it easy im always tired just been sitting on my bum or sleeping. im just debating what to have for breakfast ive really gone off my food. loads of people told me having sex everyday wouldnt work proved them wrong! cant hurt to try. anyway im going to go cook some food, speak to you soon vicky xxxxx
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hi nadia how is everything going, i had an early scan yesterday and im 8 weeks and 4 days pregnant and baby is 19.1mm long with a strong heart beat. whats going on in your life? got a new job yet? vicky xx
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Hey lovely Vicky!!! Glad to hear from you!! Great news..again..I am so happy for you!! Sorry that I haven't wrote you earlier. But I have been so busy...believe it or not, now that I am unemployed I actually work a lot more than before!!! It's not like I wasn't doing anything at work before (otherwise I wouldn't have left...!!!! ) It's always something to do at home..if not cleaning than cooking...shopping...the garden work...imagine if I had kids. Well now I am going to the gym as well,everyday...trying to get fit...HA..HA..!!! I have been busy creating a CV. I haven't done one for such a long time, and it's so bloody difficult!! It took me a week to do a perfect one...so I have sent them off to some agency. Now my phone keeps ringing...I've got a job interview tomorrow as well. Hopefully...!!!! But you know..I was thinking that if I get a new job now and I get pregnant in the meantime...??? That would be bloody great...eh?? My life has always been like that!!! Very boring in general...than everything (good or bad..) happens in one day. We'll see !! Fingers crossed!! I had my period since...so we have been trying to conceive now. I bought a fertility test which doesn't seem to work for me..I don't know why!!! I have been testing from day 10 and it's always negative even that it's day 15 now. How can this happen? I am thinking if it's the test what's rubbish (£ 22..should be working!!) ..or I don't ovulate. What do you think?? I had the same problem before!! I don't know what to do!! So it's great that the baby had a strong heartbeat!! It's good sign..isn't it??? Did you get a copy of the scan picture? You and your family must be over the moon!!! And how u feeling otherwise? You said that it's feels so different. Are u still feeling sick all the time? Gosh...I can not wait to get pregnant and have baby!! That would bring so much joy to this family..and would soften my mother-in-law's heart as well!!! I am affraid I gotta go now! Plenty of work to be done!!! Take care of yourself!!! Speak to u soon!! Hugs and xxxxxx Nadia
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hi nadia, hope your interview goes well today, i have loads to do aswell but im constaintly tired, not feeling as sick as i was. i did get a piccy of the scan ive framed it and put the date on it, think after ive had all my scans i'll put them all in a big frame. my mams more excited than me lol. i got a travel system yesterday my friend had a baby last aug and its totally spotless £150 and she has said i can have her crib aswell. got it all stored in my mams spareroom. got my next scan on the 18th june, cant wait it was so amazing to see it on the screen. enough about me.......if your having periods then you have to be ovulating, i wouldnt worry with trying to pin point exactly your day, it took me a couple of months to work out roughly, if you take the first day of your peroid then count backwards 14days and thats the day you ovulated so you can take the same day next month. just try my approach, everyday! remember his sperm can live inside you for up to 7 days. im going to get ready now got a parcel to pick up from the post office then im going to make a cornbeef and potatoe pie! proba little house wife! had another idea...tell me whatcha think.....i thought about having a small registery office marriage then in a couple years maybe have it blessed. just so i can be married before bubba comes?? Im not bothered about the dress and the fancy doo afterwards just want to get married! anyway, going to go put some clothes on and see if i can drag myself about of the house. speak soon take care and dont stress yourself out about your ovulatation!! vicky xxxx
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Hi Vicky! How is life treating you? Is everything alright? How's the pregnancy going? I have been quite busy recently.Job interviews...etc. You know what..??? Strange thing. Since I miscarried I don't get sore breasts anymore before my period. I always had sore breasts 7-10 days before my period was due... After my m/c I had my period after 31 days. Now it's 29 days gone.....and no sign of it!!! How strange!! My period always been regular(28 days cicle). Since I miscarried my body is acting really strange. First...no ovulation detected...Second...as I said,no sore,tender breast before period.... I have done a pregnancy test today...negative. So I don't know what to think...???? I am now thinking to see my GP. Any suggestion? About your idea!!! I think it's great to get married before the baby comes. At least you don't have to use ur maiden name anymore. ( like on documents...etc) And on the baby's records looks better if ur married rather than partners... I think...??? Speak to you soon!!! Nadia XXX
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hi nadia, i think the same looks better to be a mr and mrs. i wouldnt go to the docs i did and there was nothing they could really tell me apart from just wait and see what happens. everything is going good my side, im 10+6 days today and im starting to show got my next scan on the 18th june i cant wait, really hope this baby is on time my due date is 19/12/08 5 days before chrimbo!!!! i cant wait to find out what im having aswell, my boobs arent as sore as in the first few weeks, my fella is loving it gone from a 34 d to a 38f lol. i hope they dont get too much bigger. i keep telling him the bigger they get the more there is to go saggy after lol. well im going to get some breakfast. speak soon take care vicky xx
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