hi everyone i just thought i would come and leave a message for peope who no me i dont really no if its the write thing to do as i dont want to upset everyone and all the lovely women on here but incase any1 wants to no who i've spoke to before i thought i would leave it anyway, i'm really sorry if i do upset anyone. well i dont really no how to write it down and put it into words but i was 35 weeks on sunday and was concerned as i hadnt felt my daughter move so i went to the hospital where they told me her heart had stopped... i've just gotten out of hospital and to be honest i dont think its really sunk in yet i'm just completly devastated, i dont understand how people who don't care about kids and dont want them have them fine and people who do want them and will give them all the love they need cant have them or theres always problems it just doesnt seem fair... they dont't no the cause and told me they problys wont find out either i just hope where ever she is she's safe and she knows how much her mum and dad love her and miss her i wish she could have gotten the chance to have a life and i wish i had the chance to tell her how much i love her...

i hope i havnt offended anyone leaving this message as i know when i was pregnant i didnt like hearing things like this i'm so sorry if i have

Abbie. I am so so sorry. I have sobbed whilst reading this message. We had freinds who lost their little girl at 39 weeks a few months ago and being the Mother of two I can only imagine the heartache you are going through.
I know your little girl will be happy in the next world and being well looked after by your family and friends on the otherside. She will have the chance to come back to you so talk to her and know she is close.
I wish you well and I am sending lots of love and healing your way.
All my Love P xxxxxx

Oh Abbie, I couldn't read this message without leaving a message - how can you offend anyone with this message? I'm so sorry for your loss and my heart goes out to you and your partner. I dont really know what to say in this situation especially after you have been through so much and you were nearly there. I know nothing I can say can compesate the way you are both feeling. I'm sure your baby would have loved you too if she had been given the chance, just know that she is in a safe place.

I hope both of find comfort in each other. Once again, i'm really sorry for your loss.

All the best

im so very sorry to hear about your loss.
i bet she knows how much you love her up there in heaven. she will be looking down on
you hoping for you to smile for her as i bet shes not seen you do that for her yet.
i know its sad and hard losing a baby but all will be well when you know shes safe up there in heaven.
all my hugs and kisses kelly .x.

Abbie I am so very very sorry!

Don`t you worry about offending anyone at all. I really don`t know what to say as no words can make you feel better and I agree that it`s not fair at all. I hope time will ease your pain Hun And I`m sure your baby girl will know just how much she`s loved by her Mummy and Daddy and I`m sure that she is safe and loved.

All my best wishes for you both Abbie, Take Care.

Sam

Abbie I am so sorry for your loss. I nearly didn't have the nerve to read your post after seeing your heading/title... I am so sorry and have no words, apart from saying that I don't think anyone could be offended that you have posted this very sad story... I wish you lots of strength over the coming weeks and I am sure there will be countless TB members who will be saying a little prayer for your daughter tonight...
xx

Abbie
I don't know you but I'm so very sorry to hear of your loss. I'm sure nobody will be offended by your message and everyone will just have overwhelming sympathy and compassion for you. You are so right, it simply isn't fair. I hope you and your partner can find strength in each other to get through this terrible time. My thoughts are with you both at this sad time and my very best wishes for your future.
Joanne x

Hi Abbi I am so sorry for your loss you haven't offened anyone you have every right to post threads on here , I cried reading this it isn't fair that you were so close to completing your famiy my heart goes out to you and your family you will need each other to gain the strangth you need to grive. I hope talking on here will help a little with the grieving process sending a BIG HUG your way I only wish I could hug you in person and be a shoulder for you to cry on. All my love and best wishes to you and your family Emma.

Hi Abbie, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss, I couldn't not leave a message! You must be heartbroken, my story is different, we lost our baby boy when I was 17+6 weeks pregnant back n April and the heartache was/is unbearable... I have found SANDs to be an amazing source of comfort and advice: http://www.sandsforum.org/index.php I hope the days ahead are gentle to you.

i can only imagine how you feel. i am so sorry to hear about your loss and i understand when you talk about people who didn't want to keep their babies, i am so sorry xxxxx

Abbie, I read this and my heart went out to you. I am so sorry to hear your tragic news. I hope you have support through these dark days.

Love
Steff

abbie, my heart goes out to you, i lost a baby too, slightly different curcumstances but it was at 35 weeks , i know what u are going through, it will get better though i promise, even though at the moment you don't feel like it ever will, it was 12 years ago it happened to me i still think about him and have the odd moments where it still upsets me, i hope you've got alot of support around you as you'll probably need it

big hugs and love to you and your family

abbie

poor you :(

how remarkably strong you are honey, im so so sorry for what you and your partner are going through. as soon as you feel ready to vent it come and join us in the ttc after miscarriage, for the simple reason everyone there has suffered a loss and some ladies full term babies like yourself. i cant begin to imaging what your feeling like but everyone on there are such lovely people, and we can all support you and you can be completley honest and i often say things that i cant discuss with my partner. big big hugs. xxxxx

Abbie,
I'm so sorry to hear what you're going through. Take it easy and know your baby is safely in Heaven x

im so sorry hear that my heart goes out to u at this sad time take care.x

Abbie my heart is filled will sorrow for you and your partner, you are in my thoughts at this very hard time.
Please can you make sure you see your doctor and a counseller this may help you in the future. It helped my sister and friend.
Big hug to you x

abbie,how could you possibly offend anyone with your thread,you have just lost your baby,my thoughts are with you at this sad time,i feel for you and hope you can get through this,take care nikki xx

abbie im so sorry for your loss, i hope over time it will get easyer for you and your partner, my heart goes out to you both at this very hard time for you, take care hun lots of hugs clare.xx

thanks for all the support everyone, it means so much to me, even though i don't no anyone you all feel like friends me me thanks very much for your words. Also i have a great family who are really supportive at the moment i really don't think me and my partner could get through the days without everyone x x

Hi Abbie i just want to send you my love. it's so unfair that this has happend to you as you seem really lovely. Your daughter will be proud of you for being so strong and i'm sure she knows how much you love her.

louise xx.