hiya all,

well im just wanting to meet some alike people who are trying o concieve after a miscarriage i had a miscarriage on the 14th june at 22 weeks i gave birth to a beutiful boy who passed shortly after i then had a second miscarriage at 6 weeks and am now trying again i just want alike people who can support me and i can support them also.

HUGS

hi ayesha,

sorry to hear about what you have gone through recently. i miscarried in early september at 11 wks, then decided to wait for a wee while to let everything settle down and now we are hoping to concieve again soon.
this website has been really good for me as i can speak to people who understand how i feel. really hope that both of us will have good news very soon:)

keep in touch

alix

Hello there

I had a missed miscarriage at 12 weeks plus & no-one for certain can tell me if i lost 2 as the growth & dates didn't add up! I am so sorry to hear of your loss i think you are pretty amazing to keep trying & i really hope you get you wish soon don't give up.
I have might be only able to have the one & she came against all the odds so i know its possible. GOOD LUCK & all the best.

: - )

I have just had a missed miscarriage at 11 weeks and I wondered how long it takes to have a period again. Can anyone advise?
Thanks
R

Hi Ruth, i'm sure it's different for each person.

I had a missed miscarriage at 12 weeks, and was taken into hospital for the day 3 days later to have 2 sets of 2 pills throughout the day which made me bleed everything in my womb out. I bled for 9 days after that, and then had what seemed like a normal cycle for me the next month. But i've known people to go for 2 months without a period after a miscarriage, I guess it just depends on your body.

So sorry to hear about your miscarriage x x x

hi ruth,

sorry to hear about what you have gone through, same happened to me. it should return roughly a month later, i always had my period starting on the 6th now it starts on the 4th. hope that this will help you a little.

alix

hey ladies well thanks for all the adds i have some good news and would love all your support im pregnant and chuffed

ruth im really sorry to hear of your loss and i pray that you have many healthy pregnancies to come

hi ayesha,

congratulations!! that makes two of us!! im five weeks pregnant now and having a scan in 2 weeks. feel more relaxed this time as i know what to expect in the next few weeks. really nice to be expecting at christmas, good luck for the next 9 mnths!!

alix

thanx im reaaly over the moon just real scared st the same time i have a scan on tuesday will let you all know how i get on

Hi Trisha, Alix & Ayesha,

I really appreciated hearing back from you all, wasn't sure if these forums really worked but they clearly do, so thank you! It does help to know what others have been through. Congratulations to you pregnant mums, wishing you well

Ruth xxx

hi ruth,

thanks for your kind words, really good to help one another on this website. wishing you all the best for christmas and the new year!

alix

I had a missed miscarriage at 12 and half weeks. 2 weeks later im still bleeding, does anyone know how long the bleeding will last for? I have to do another pregnancy test in a couple of days as my pregnancy hormones in my blood were high two weeks ago.

Hi sloops, can I ask what you chose to do in terms of clearing your womb out?

I chose 'medical management', and I bled for 9 days but a couple of people I know have bled for around 3 weeks when they have had a D&C because there were some retained 'products' or they were scratched abit too hard inside.

Sorry to hear about your miscarriage x x

with my second miscarriage i was left to bleed out as they said my body had already started th process most people opt for d&c but i say it depends on the person themselves

HUGS and have a good xmas and new year all

Hi everyone hope you all had a great christmas.
Im back to ttc again as I had a mc on xmas eve so spent xmas eve and xmas day in hosp not what I wanted especially as it was my baby girls 1st xmas but have to stay positive for the sake of the kids at least we can try again once the bleeding has stopped but don't know whether too try as this is my 2nd mc finding it hard and hope the next pregnancy has a happier ending

Hi everyone, I was given no options in terms of clearing my womb out. As I was due for my 12 week scan this confirmed I had miscarried and there was little remaining. I have finally stopped bleeding but it took over three weeks for this to happen. Hopefully now my body is sorting itself out just dont know how long to leave it before trying again.

Angela, hope your next pregnancy does have a happier ending, fingers crossed for both of us and anyone else who is ttc. xx

hi sloops,

midwife told me its good to let your body get back into a routine, so if you were to wait for two cycles, you could start trying again after this. its really up to you and how you feel at the time, best of luck to you!

alix

Thanx. Its hard to know what to do for the best. Iv had no help, support or advise from the hospital or midwife as this was my first pregnancy so all they have said to me is its very common, your young and can try again. They seem to forget that it was my baby and not 'just a feotus' as one doctor told me. My GP said 6-12months but I didnt want to wait that long as it seems Il be waiting forever.
Thanx for replying, im so pleased I found this forum!! xx

Hi sloops and ali I was told by the consultant I saw after my mc on xmas eve that I could try straight away as they only advise waiting so they can date the pregnancy easier so good luck to us all and lets hope 2007 will be a good year
Angela xx

Angela, thats certainly more positive then anything else I have been told. Its now been 4 weeks since my mc, once Iv had a period we have decided to try again so my new years resolution is to eat healthier and stop smoking again!! (i didnt smoke when I was pregnant but started after the mc)my body will hopefully be in better condition and things will hopefully work out!! Let me know how things go for you.xx