Are you having a home or hospital birth?
Im expecting my third and have written a birth plan as i want things done my way and whoever helps me deliver my newborn will have some idea of what i like and what i dont like.With my first 13 years ago i felt like i was being told what to do and it made my labour and delivery awfull.With my second i had pin pointed what i wanted and they now have to adhere the best they can.