Help!

Im 2 months pregnant and really really happy only 1 problem.

Im sooooooooo worried that something may go wrong in the first 3 months. I cant see my midwife until the 6th of november and im so scared that something may have already gone wrong. There are no signs that something has but im just soooo woried. Is there anything that can put my mind at rest?

Hey Carlz, I think you will get a million replies of people feeling exactly the same! I am so worried too!! Havn't even got an appointment with my midwife yet! Am 6+4 today. Hate the waiting, I'm not telling anyone until I've had someone tell me that it's actually there and all ok!!! I don't know how to put your mind at ease, other than joining the relevent "due..." board and chatting to people! I find that a great help (You'll find you're not alone in your feelings)

Julz x

Hi Carlz and Julz, I felt exactly the same it's hard because althought you've done the test you still think is everything going to be ok. I bleed the week before I did my first test, I then bleed slightly while on holiday, after too much walking and had a bleed for over a week around 9 wks I had spoken to the midwife who said I'd need a scan and since seeing Blob I have felt so much better about this pregnancy which is my first.

 If you are really worried and your dr hasn't given you the midwife's telephone number make another appointment with them. I found that reading stuff on the internet also helped even when I thought I was having a m/c!

 What helped me was to think, if it's meant to be it's meant to be, if not then it's not something you've done it just wasn't meant to be.  Try not to worry and be positive although I know it's hard I hope I helped!!

 Everyone on here is very lovely and if you ever need to chat just let me know!

 B x 11+3 wks 

Hi Ladies,

I think we all go through what you are currently experiencing - but am with Becs on this one, try not to worry and just relax about it - what will be, will be. 

The more you stress, the more chance you have of making something unfortunate happen. Think happy vibes for your babies, a positive attitude goes a long way!

I know it must seem like an eternity until you have your first scans, but trust me, i thought my pregnancy was going slowly and all of a sudden im 30+wks..... it will fly by.  What you have is special, so try to relax and enjoy the ride!

Vx (30+4)