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Birth: Tearing and Episiotomies

Having a baby can be painful if you tear or need an episiotomy, but knowing about it now could help minimise the risk during labour


Posted: 26 May 2009
by ThinkBaby

It sounds awful: your vagina tearing as your baby comes out. Or, worse still, your midwife actually cutting you to facilitate your little one’s passage. But don’t panic – we promise it’s really not that bad (especially if you plan ahead with some perineal massage).

Your vagina during birth
During the birth, your baby’s head will stretch the opening of your vagina to make his way into the world. And while the skin often copes well with this stretching, it sometimes tears. Alternatively, your midwife may decide to help your baby out with a deliberate cut, called an episiotomy.
The good news is that far fewer episiotomies are carried out than ever before. About just 12 per cent of women in England now have a cut, compared with 30 years ago when rates peaked at 90 per cent. Your midwife will try to minimise the chance of you tearing or having an episiotomy, but if it does happen, take heart from the fact that most new mums report that it’s much worse in theory than it is in practice. ‘If a tear happens, it is often quite small,’ says RCM midwife Gail Johnson, ‘and if there is a need for an episiotomy the skin will heal very well.’

Perineal massage

‘Perineal massage helps women to become aware of and in control of their bodies,’ says Gail Johnson, and it can also increase elasticity and flexibility. Try a five-minute massage a day from week 36:
1. Find a comfortable position, propped up on your side against cushions or standing with one leg on a chair.
2. Using an unscented vegetable oil or olive oil, bring your hand up round the back and gently stretch your vagina with index and middle fingers.
3. Stretch gently to the back, left and right and towards your tailbone, but not towards your front.
4. Breathe out as you stretch, and relax your fingers as you inhale.
5. Stretch six times in each direction. Alternate leg position and repeat with the other hand.

Q&A: tearing and episiotomy
Why might I tear?
When you are pushing your baby out, your perineum (the skin and muscle between your vagina and back passage) is put under a lot of strain. It’s quite common to tear – it’s estimated that around a third of women in the UK have a tear large enough to need stitches – and usually happens during the last stage of birth, when the baby’s head or shoulders come out.

Why might I need an episiotomy?
These days, episiotomies are used only if a baby is in distress and needs to be delivered quickly or with the aid of forceps, or to limit the damage if it looks like you’ll tear badly. Sometimes it’s simply the best option to keep both of you safe and healthy.

How is it done?
A cut is made to your perineum to make the opening of your vagina bigger, usually by your midwife. You’ll have an injection to make the area numb, or if you’ve had an epidural this may be topped up. The cut (called a medio-lateral incision) is made at the back of the vagina, going diagonally down and outward. Occasionally the cut is made directly down, but the first type is thought to reduce the risk of further tearing.

Will it hurt?
You won’t feel much at all – the cut is really straightforward, and you’ll have had a local anaesthetic. Similarly, by the time you get to the pushing stage of labour you may not even be aware that you are tearing.

What might increase my chances of having a tear or a cut?
If your baby is big or in an unusual position, or you have a previous birth tear which shows signs of splitting, you may be more at risk. A previous pelvic floor injury or an unusually short perineum can also increase your chances.

Is there anything I can do to minimise the risks?
Choosing a different position during delivery, such as kneeling, lying on one side or on all fours, can help to make the baby’s passage easier, while research also shows that using a birth pool may help your perineum. You should avoid extreme pushing in the last stage of labour, and just try to relax.
You could also try talking to your midwife about her delivery style: research shows that if she adopts the ‘hands poised’ approach, where she doesn’t touch the perineum and lets the shoulders of the baby deliver themselves, you have a better chance of staying intact. The downside of this is a slightly more painful recovery following the birth. Some midwives also advocate perineal massage as a way of reducing the likelihood of episotomy.

Will I need stitches?
If you tore, your midwife will decide whether you need stitches or if the wound will heal on its own, while you’ll need stitches for an episiotomy. For bigger tears she’ll offer you a local anaesthetic to numb the area first, and she’ll use dissolving stitches so there’s no need to worry about having them removed.

Healing tips

  • Do your pelvic floor exercises to promote circulation and speed the healing process.
  • Try an ice pack wrapped in muslin to relieve swelling and reduce pain.
  • Add a couple of drops of lavender swished in an egg-cupful of milk to a warm bath for a soothing soak.
  • Witch hazel is anti-inflammatory: try sprinkling some on a sanitary pad, chilling in the fridge and then applying to the affected area.
  • Arnica gel is particularly good for relieving bruising.
  • Eat well, drink plenty of fluid and get the balance right between rest and exercise.

Will it hurt afterwards?
You will probably feel a bit battered and bruised. Taking painkillers will help, and if it’s uncomfortable to sit down you might want to invest in a cushion or rubber ring.

How will I go to the loo/wash?
It’s important to keep your stitches clean to avoid infection – use a bidet or spritz the area with a water spray, and change pads regularly. When you pee, remember to wipe from front to back. It’s really common to worry that your stitches might burst when you go to the loo, but this is very, very unlikely. For peace of mind, it can help to hold a sanitary pad over the stitches the first few times nature calls.

How long will it take to heal?
The worst will be over in less than a week, and any stitches will dissolve by about 10 days. You may feel a bit tender, but within three to four weeks you should be completely healed.
What’s more, many women who have had an episiotomy or tear first time round won’t need any stitches at subsequent births.

What about complications?
A small number of women experience some incontinence following an episiotomy – this should disappear once bruising has healed, but talk to your health provider if you’re concerned. Alos, remember that sex after birth feels strange for everyone at first, but if it doesn’t get better, and feels tight and painful, consult your doctor. Finally, a tiny minority of women have raised or itchy scar tissue. A simple operation can remedy this, and can be safely carried out few months after the birth.


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