At my last antenatal appointment my midwife told me I'd have to see a consultant because I tore really badly with my 1st, put it this way I wasn't stitched as much as reconstructed and they lost count of the number of stitches I had! Presumably they'll see how well I healed, I'm hoping cos it's been almost 12 years that everything should be ok, but I guess I'll have to see what the consultant says.
I think I've done everything as backward as possible lol.
My 2nd is due Jan, approx 1 month after my first turns 12!
They do have different dads though so it's not quite as bad as it seems. We do want more, I know, daft thinking about that now, but we'd like 4 in total, with roughly 2 year gaps, but obviously it depends how I get on with being a mum again to a tiny one.
If all goes to plan when my last is born I'll have a 16 yr old, a 4 yr old, a 2 yr old and a newborn.
I'll be doing GCSE's, starting infants, potty training and getting up goodness knows how many times in the night. Hmmm putting it like that on paper I do sound a bit mad!