Holly, it might seem like tough love, but I would persevere with feeding a picky child the food everyone else has. No snacks/slices of toast/yoghurts if they refuse dinner and then feel hungry. Keep a varied diet and don't give them what they say they want (you'll find yourself running round in circles!)
I would only pander to a picky child if they have food allergies (then it's necessary). Children will not intentionally starve themselves. I hope you get a breakthrough soon xxx
Thanks everyone. I'm not too bad. Just having a few teary moments (like when Dobby died in Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows part 1 - how silly am I?!)
Natty, I thought Isaac was smart but counting to 40 is amazing! Well done Chloe!
Emma sorry to hear you have PND. From reading your posts over the years () I am absolutely certain you're a great mum. Your little ones would be much, much worse off without you. Hang in there and things will get better.
Good luck pregnant ladies with your births. I hope everyone else is doing ok xxx