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Having a baby after 35

What are the risks and how can you weigh the odds in your favour?


Posted: 15 May 2007
by ThinkBaby

It's not all that long ago when having a baby after 35 was considered as very late in life and was particularly uncommon for a first child. These days however, more and more women are putting off starting a family into their thirties and it's no longer viewed as strange or dangerous to have babies in your late thirties or even early forties. However, certain conception and pregnancy risks are higher with pregnancies later in life, so if you are planning to put off having babies until your late thirties or early forties then it's wise to be prepared for what these are so you can make an informed choice.

Is it more risky to have a baby after 35?
You might have heard that women older than 35 are at higher risk of their baby having Down's syndrome or of developing certain pregnancy-related complications. It is true that women over 35 have a higher chance of carrying a baby with a genetic defect. A chromosomal abnormality with the fetus is the most common cause of miscarriage, so the risk of miscarriage is consequently higher for women as they grow older. Screening is usually recommended for women over 35 who wish to know whether their baby is carrying a genetic disorder, and many women over 35 choose to have an amniocentesis test. The most common concern is Down's syndrome, the risk of which doubles from age 30 to 35, at around .25% and then is three times for likely for women of 40 plus, at just under 1% and by the age of 45 is nearly 3%. Although the risk for women rises significantly with age, the chance of a baby having a genetic disorder is still low.
There is also a non-invasive test now available called a nuchal fold scan' which many health authorities offer to women who are pregnant and aged 35 or over.

Pregnancy complications such as placenta praevia, gestational diabetes and high blood pressure are also more common for women over 35, and all of these are conditions which can pose problems and so will be closely monitored. However, your antenatal care will be tailored to your age and your specific circumstances and there's no reason to assume that you will have problems simply because you are an older mum.

There is also a slightly increased chance of stillbirth for women in their late thirties and early forties, however, the rate of stillbirth is extremely low at any age and not something that you should worry about.

Most pregnant women over 35 have healthy pregnancies and by far the majority give birth to healthy babies. In fact, for most women over 35 the issue of age is of far more relevance when it comes to getting pregnant to start off with.

Falling pregnant after 35
Your age does have a strong correlation with how fertile you are, as your eggs age along with you meaning that you have fewer viable eggs as you grow older and you become gradually less fertile. The biggest drop off in fertility happens in the mid-thirties and according to NHS figures a woman in her late thirties is, on average, half as fertile as a woman in her twenties. That of course doesn't mean that all women over 35 will have a difficult time conceiving, but that you do have to be prepared that it may take longer than it would for someone ten years younger.

Because of this decline in fertility, women over 35 who are experiencing problems conceiving are advised to see their doctor for tests for medical reasons for infertility far sooner than younger women. Once you are over 35, your doctor will probably be willing to start investigations if you have been trying to conceive unsuccessfully for six months whereas a younger woman would usually be encouraged to wait for at least 12 months before getting treatment.

So, if you are over 35 and through the first twelve weeks of your pregnancy then you can take some reassurance from the fact that the chances are that the most difficult part is behind you.

Successful pregnancy after 35
When it comes to what you can do to give your chances of conception and healthy pregnancy a boost as a woman over 35, the answer is simply to do what is recommended for women at any age. By far the most important starting point is to base your pregnancy on being fit and healthy yourself to start off with. If you're planning on starting to try to conceive then it's a good idea to book yourself an appointment with the doctor to discuss your (and your partner's) current health and medical history to flag up any lifestyle changes that need to be made, or any potential problem areas. If you smoke then try to stop before trying to conceive, cut back on your alcohol intake (or cut it out altogether), pay attention to your diet, try to get your weight within healthy limits (neither too low nor too high) and make sure you're getting plenty of exercise. There are many more tips for healthy conception here.

Once you know you're pregnant then there's no need to wrap yourself up in cotton wool or behave in a particular way just because of your age: simply follow the advice of your doctor and the usual recommendations for improving your chances of a healthy pregnancy. The decision on whether or not to undergo screening for genetic abnormalities in your developing baby is very much a personal one, although as an older mum you will automatically be offered tests.

The risks of developing certain pregnancy-related conditions may be higher for older mums, but once your pregnancy is established such risks are still relatively low, and the chances are that your pregnancy will be healthy and free of complications.


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Ive just found out Im pregnant again. Baby number 6. It wasnt expected as both my husband and myself had decided that we didnt want any more children. Anyway Im 5weeks. Im excited and worried at the same time. All the normal pregnancy worries + a little extra as Im now 36. I havent told my younger children who are 4 and 2 (both boys). The older ones who are 17, 13 and 11 (Girl, boy, girl) are over the moon.
Posted: 16/05/2007 13:05

hi kerry im 38 and expecting baby no 8 so dont worry i had my last one when i was 36 and no problems,congratulations anyway to you!!nikki xx
Posted: 16/05/2007 14:17

hi. firstly congratulations on baby no 8. How many weeks are you, did you go through the same feelings? Ive the doctors friday as Ive been told this time I will be under the hospital, as Ive already had 5 children. kerry x
Posted: 16/05/2007 14:48

hi kerry im 12 weeks i will be 39 years old when this baby is born,im worrying about everything this time more than ever mainly because my midwife has stressed me out with all the mention of tests!!i though everyone saw a midwife these days but ive just got an hospital appointment sent through which says it will take 2 hours and i have to see the consultant,i really didnt want to but i will have to go and see what they say, i have my dating scan as well its next thursday,i think everyone worries when they are pregnant dont they however many we have had,take care anyway, nikki xx
Posted: 16/05/2007 16:19

hi kerry, im on baby no.6 too, i will be 41 when this little one is born, we also have a collection of older kids - my husband has a boy 23!! mine are 18 and 16 also boys. we have 3 children together 2 girls age 4 and 2 and little boy 1. all healthy and doing fine, hopefully this little one will be too. take care and enjoy your pregnancy and dont feel pushed into having anything you dont want (they tend to tutt and sharp intake of breath at our age i know!!) best wishes xxx
Posted: 17/05/2007 14:26

Congrates all, I am 38 and expecting my first bambino in 11 wks...
I have had a good pregnancy getting tired now and I was told by my midwife that there was nothing wrong with my age as more and more women are waiting. I did end up paying private for the nuchal scan to check for downs and edwards and the test came back at 1/1389 and spina bifida they all came back low risk.
best wishes and take care xxxxxxxxx
Posted: 19/05/2007 16:31

Hi. Congratulations on your first pregnancy. Mother hood is wounderful. Maybe thats why Ive put myself through it so many times.... I saw my doctor on Friday and now have my 1st scan booked for June 14th, this is just the dating scan, the nurse who booked me in said that I am able to get a nuchal Translucency scan on the nhs. Thats after looking at me and saying how old are you? Cheek, 36 isnt old. They have said that I should be able to get booked in the week after I have had my dating scan. The only trouble is they dont do it at my normal hospital, so we have to travel to have it done. Anyway apart from a slight headache most days (which is probably due to all the other kids) lol, Im feeling ok. take care. kerry xx
Posted: 21/05/2007 10:00

Hi, I had my 2nd child at age 39. Yes, it is scary but don't let the doctors worry you. I was so nervous about EVERYTHING going wrong. I was making myself sick. Don't do that to yourself. Enjoy being pregnant!!! God meant it to be for a reason!!! :) Good luck and God bless!!! I wouldn't have had it any other way. My boy is a healthy 6 month old that keeps me on my toes everyday!
Posted: 21/05/2007 16:00

Girls stop worrying! I am 42 and had my first this february - conceived naturally and born naturally at home in a birth pool in 8 hours and I didnt even tear. I'm still breastfeeding but will scale it down at 6 months as I want to have another one soon. Dont listen to the statistics about older mothers - If I did I wouldnt be with my beautiful daughter. The only reason they are so high is that there arnt enough of us. Just enjoy it all now that you're older and wiser

Julie
Posted: 21/05/2007 20:17

BTW I also had a Nuchal scan (which we of course paid for much to my greivance as i believe everyone should get one on the NHS, there are too many unecessary amnios)
and I had a risk rate of a 25 year old
Posted: 21/05/2007 20:19

hi,it is good to read all these threads i am 38 and will be 39 when my 8th baby is born i am due for my dating scan at the hospital on thursday and i can imagine how they will be about the tests i dont want any of them but my midwife has gone on and on about them to me,quite nervous about going now i dont like when you feel pressured into things,fingers crossed they wont be too bad when i go,nikki xx
Posted: 22/05/2007 19:30

If you don't want them done, then don't. They tell you that some of the tests are safe, like the amnio test, but I've heard things that changed my mind. The only tests I had done were the blood test, which is YOUR blood, not the baby's and the extensive ultrasound. Would any of the other tests, if they came out positive, change your mind on having this one?? I know it didn't for us. We decided that if our baby had problems, we would deal with it regardless. You have to think on those terms. I'm not trying to change your mind but maybe ease it a little. It's hard no matter how you look at it but its a blessing from above! That's the way I look at my son. A true blessing. Good luck on whatever you choose to do. Just try not to get worked up. It's not good for you or your baby!!


Posted: 23/05/2007 13:23

I spent a lot of time researching all the tests and in the end we paid for a Nuchal Scan (not many trusts in the UK offer them on NHS yet) and we were glad we did. The place we did it (MUMS in Solihull) got the blood test results (mine) sent back in time to give a very accurate reading along with the ultrasound. The NHS blood tests are only about 60% accurate so this is why a lot of women go on to have the more intrusive Amniocentisis or CVS which could be avoided if they offered the more accurate combined test. Like Jackie says though. Its your choice, arm yourself with as much info as possible and stand your ground. Dont let them force you to do anything you dont want to but the better informed you are the easier this will be.
Posted: 23/05/2007 21:05

Hi, I had my little boy in October at the age of 38. I definitely want to have more but my 41 year old husband doesn't! I love being a mum and didn't worry too much about the risks during my pregnancy.
Posted: 23/05/2007 23:42

hi,thanks for the replies i wouldnt act upon any results even if i has the blood tests so i will be refusing them today,just hope it isnt too much of a battle,im at the hospital at 9 so i will let everyone know how it goes,nikki xxxx
Posted: 24/05/2007 06:27

Hi just wanted to say my Mum had baby number 4 at nearly 44 years of age naturally without even trying to concive. I'm the oldest at 25 then theres sister 5 brother 3 and the youngest 7 weeks on Friday don't worry about your age. I've been tring for a baby for 20 months and so far nothing yonger does not always mean better.
Posted: 05/06/2007 13:31

Hi all. Ive got a scan on Thursday 14th, this is just to confirm my dates. The midwife came round yesterday and is going to arrange a Nuchal Scan for me in the next couple of weeks. We have been told that this can be done on the nhs but if we want the blood test done at the same time (to make the result more accurate) it is going to cost about £70. I think I will be glad once all these scans and tests have been done so that I can start to enjoy my pregnancy without all these little worries. Hope you are all well, take care. kerry xx
Posted: 07/06/2007 10:07

Hi,
I'm 35 and 23 weeks pregnant with bab y number 2 - already have a 6 year-old. Everyone I know who's had a baby over the age of 34 have been referred for an amnio after the quadruple blood tests and everyone's have come back clear. I feel as if you are looked down on for daring to be over 30 to have a baby!
If you don't want the tests stick to your guns and just refuse - they can't make you!
Kath
Posted: 26/06/2007 13:14

Hi everyone
I've just posted on the Older Mums thread today and am a regular on Due Dec. I'm 38 and pregnant with 2nd (my son is 14). I've refused all tests. My Trust doesn't offer nuchal testing, it has to be done privately and I wouldn't act on the results so won't put myself through the anxiety. Its terrible the way they make you feel like you should - my midwife just wasn't listening to me when I said I didn't want the amnio and the extra blood tests - every time I said I didn't want them she said "you don't have to make your mind up now"!! Anyway, they asked after 12 week scan if I wanted to make appointment for the triple blood test at 16 weeks and I just said no, they didn't question it then. Shame there aren't more older, responsible women having babies rather than children actually having babies!
J x

Posted: 27/06/2007 16:00

Hi,

Looks like not many people have posted on here for quite a while.

I can't be the only woman here who's over 35 and ttc??

I will be 40 this year, I actually convinced myself when I was 24 (after my 2nd MC) that I would never have children, but I met my hubby and we got married last year. He has 5 children from past realtionships, but he only sees 3 of them.

We have decided to ttc a baby, we lost our 1st one on Xmas day, I was and still am devistated. I have to say I expected the MC from the day I foundout I was pg. I just couldn't relax as I was so scared of it happening again.

I have been for tests and all but the last few that we are waiting to hear about have come back normal. I am fit and healthy, my weight is correct and I eat ok. I do smoke, but I have cut down and if and when I get pg again I will stop, I have never smoked during a pregnancy. I have cut out caffine and alcohol. I am doing my best to keep my baby, if and when I fall again.

I am worried about my age, but I am not the only woman my age to want a baby. The hospital have said that my age and past pg's are a concern and I will be on the 'High Risk' list it I am lucky enough to fall again.

Well fingers crossed, I want this so much it actually hurts.

Baby dust and love to everyone TTC.

Meema xxx      


Posted: 17/02/2009 13:07

Hi Meema, I was 42 when I had my first baby - and easy pregnancy and a wonderful home waterbith (on the NHS too).  What tests have you had if they are just by a GP then they may not be thorough enough.  I was lucky enough to see a wonderful miscairrage specialist called Prof Justin Konje (based at the Leicester Royal) after my 2nd Miscarraige - he said that no woman should have more than one without thorough investigtion.  It is too easy for GP's to tell you its because of your age.  Mine was a very simple thing - I have autoantibody's for thyroidism but as there is no problem with my thyroid it didnt show up on the standard tests.  I just had to take a small amount of Levelthyroxine while TTC and during pregnancy and hey presto I know have a lovely bouncy two year old and we are trying for another.  You really do have to take control do research and not let the GPs decide everything.  I'm sure you will be fine but insist on further tests for both of you.

good luck

 Julie


Posted: 18/02/2009 11:53

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