Babysitters - part-time childcare in your own home
Unlike a childminder, a babysitter or home child carer looks after your baby or children mainly in your own home. Unlike a nanny, a babysitter cares for children in their
spare time, rather than as a career. He or she may be
pursuing studies for example, or already be
retired. Accordingly a babysitter works far fewer
hours than a nanny - usually just for a few hours
a few times a week, and so makes sense only for
those working part-time, or for those who need a
little extra support at certain times of the week, such as before or after-school care.
As a babysitter cares for children in your home
she doesn't, by law, have to register with the
government's childcare register list, or have any
childcare qualifications. The level of experience
a babysitter has can also vary widely, and some
may be retired from a career incolving children or
have a grown-up family of their own.
Pros
- A babysitter looks after children in your
own home, so you don't have to get them ready and
take them somewhere before you go to work
- Your child is looked after in familiar
surroundings
- A babysitter can take your child to local
babygroups / playgroups etc. where you may usually
take him/her
- A babysitter will often be available to
babysit in the evenings, perhaps on a regular
basis. Your child will then already be familiar
and comfortable with her evening babysitter
- A babysitter can be a relatively
inexpensive option
- An arrangement with a babysitter may be
quite flexible, which can be great if you work
flexible or varying hours yourself, and/or work
from home or require only occasional help
- Some babysitters will have previously worked as childcare professionals or have a grown-up family of their own and so may be very experienced and well-qualified
- Establishing a relationship with a babysitter can be a good idea to give you extra flexibility and support even if you have other childcare - she may be able to offer occasional cover if your regular childcarer falls ill, for example
Cons
- A babysitter may not have any formal
childcare qualifications and their level of
experience can vary greatly
- As a result of the above, a babysitter
isn't usually an option for a very young baby, and may
well only be suitable for caring for one child
during the day (depending on her experience)
- A babysitter will usually only be
available for a few hours, a few times a week
(although you may be able to negotiate
exceptions), so this is only really a suitable
option for those working part-time or requiring a
relatively small amount of extra support per week
- As this isn't her main career, the
flexibility of an arrangement with a babysitter
can work both ways, which may not suit you if you
require reliably regular childcare. A babysitting
student may want more flexibility than a retiree,
for example, so do ask
- Compared with a nanny or childminder, it
may be more likely that a babysitter is only
available for a limited amount of time
(particularly in the case of students). Do ask
about future plans and intentions if you are
concerned about continuity of care
- As babysitters don't have to be
registered with the childcare list, you will have
to conduct any background and reference checks
yourself
- Unlike a nanny, a babysitter is usually responsible only for the actual care of your children, and not for preparing their meals or doing any of the related household jobs
Finding a
babysitter
One of the best ways to find a babysitter is
through personal recommendation - do ask friends
and family with children if they know anyone who
may be suitable.
Some online directories for
nannies and childminders may also list
babysitters / home childcarers, but remember that they don't
necessarily carry out any checks on the people on
their lists, so you will have to carry out
reference checks and any background checks
yourself. Fees for such services vary - you may have to pay nothing, but for some services you may have to pay a regular fee or a booking fee for access to the directory of babysitters - you will pay more where a vetting service is offered (but always check exactly what any vetting service entails and follow up with your own personal checks).
Interview a potential babysitter / home childcarer in the same way that you would a nanny (but adjusting your expectations accordingly), allowing plenty of time for the interview and giving time to see how the babysitter relates to your child, and how s/he reacts to them.
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